Girls!

The subject I have chosen is rather funny. Everyone knows the saying, " girls, you can't live with them, you can't live without them." Well, it is true for several reasons but I don't want to go in that direction. See girls think guys are so hard to read. Well, we aren't, we lay things out there, and sure we may not ask you out on a date but it could be simple that we are afraid of you. Guys, we just do things, not for any reason, we get up in the morning, find the cleanest shirt and put it on. We don't worry about who we are going to see. Sure we like looking good but we aren't out to win a certain girls heart over. We don't worry about whether or not you like us. We try to win you over with some jokes and being nice guys. If things don't work out, yes we are somewhat sad but we get over it. Now girls, they think about who they are going to see that day and try to dress accordingly. They flip out when they see there crush and he waves at them. And if he doesn't they break down and cry because he doesn't like them when in all reality the guy just didn't see them. Also they say they like you but then date other guys. I know the church encourages it but just curious why must you tell us about it? I mean nothing sucks more then being a compared to other guys and how fun they are or maybe how creative they are. If you think they are better then go date them and leave us alone. Don't sit there and hold it over our heads and when we don't talk to much or some what ignore you don't ask why. I mean how often does a guy compare you to another girl right in front of you. Not as often as you compare us. And the whole be nice thing, don't hurt them and if you have to be as nice as possible to the point where you miss the point. Just come out and say I don't like you I like some one else or, I hate all guys, or whatever but don't think you are doing us a favor by not telling us or trying to be nice about it. Just lay it out there. You know, I heard a song awhile back about this. Girls just need to be honest about things from the beginning. Don't try to impress us or get our attention because if we are talking to you you already have it. If you don't want us to like you more then a friend then don't flirt with us and if you just flirt naturally, tell the guy hey you are cool and all but I just want to be friends. Nothing more. If we like you we will pursue you. If not we will just ignore you until we need you for something, yes I know that that is brutal but it is the truth. Pretty much,ladies here is my advice. If you just want to be friends be up front about and say that you aren't interested in relationships, just say it up front to prevent any confusion later on. Two, if you are dating someone else or even hanging out with other guys, leave that information out, unless you don't like us. Say that you are hanging out with some of your girlfriends. We don't want to know about how you hung out with some guy today and how much fun you had or how creative he was, or how great the date was. Lastly, don't try to be nice because in the end we just want the truth even if it results in our hearts being ripped and torn to shreds, I promise we will get over it.